One of the most natural desires of a woman is the desire to please. In this case, the woman is ready to make certain sacrifices, exhaust herself with diets, physical activity wearing shoes with high heels. And even carry out cardinal changes in appearance through surgery - plastics. And all this just to be beautiful and to win many men's hearts.

But are these methods always worth it? Is it appropriate to make such sacrifices? What exactly attracts the opposite sex and how to become a magnet for him?

Almost every man in his life met a girl who is far from the ideal of beauty. But some of them are just crazy. They realize that it is far from perfect, but they cannot tear themselves away from it. Something seems to attract her, it is almost impossible to break away from her. It is magnetism that is the reason that beauties are left alone, and there are fewer of them. beautiful girlfriends married and happily married.

First of all, it is worth remembering that there is no absolute standard of beauty that any man will like. Some are attracted to slimness, others like chubby ones. Imagine your disappointment if you lost 10 kg with incredible efforts in order to attract your beloved man, and he turned away from you, although before that he showed signs of attention.

It is also impossible to say with certainty that men only like blondes, no, many prefer a different hair color.

Therefore, any woman has such an ability to attract men with a magnet, and it does not depend on height, weight, eye and hair color. You just need to make an effort and strive for it.

How to become a magnet for men?

How to attract a beloved man? The main thing is not to be lazy. You need to take care of yourself. A well-groomed woman at all times attracted the views of the opposite sex. A woman should not only monitor her appearance, but also her health. Because health problems almost immediately affect the appearance.

It is necessary to monitor the appearance, use cosmetics and apply makeup, but everything should be in moderation. It is better to stick to naturalness in appearance. You also need to monitor the condition of the teeth and fresh breath. A smile always adds to a woman not only charm, but also self-confidence.

What you wear is also very important. Never allow yourself old washed linen, untidy clothes. It is always necessary to ensure that the shoes are not only clean, but also polished. It is from these little things that the appearance of a woman is formed.

Be yourself, do not strive for unattainable ideals. There is nothing wrong if you have a feminine nature. It `s naturally. It is very important for a woman to be near strong man who you can rely on.

In any, even seemingly hopeless, situation, one should not lose optimism and a sense of humor, they will help to avoid ridicule from the outside. You can’t always be in a state of depression, sulking, no one likes such people.

Be confident in yourself and your abilities, you should feel a mystery. Love yourself and then others will also begin to treat you with respect.

The power of thought

Thought is the energy generated by your consciousness. Are you wondering how to attract a man with the power of thought? No need to think long, the most important thing is to start acting. Think, imagine the object of your fantasies. Draw in your imagination his appearance, your meeting, acquaintance. Everything depends on you.

If you believe in what you imagine, it will definitely come true. Think only positively, even one negative thought of distrust will nullify all your efforts. And it will be necessary to start all over again in order to still be able to answer the question for yourself: how to become a magnet for men.

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“Here I am, beautiful, walking down the street, and all the guys I meet are numb, and those who are weaker fall, fall, fall and stack themselves in piles!” From the film "Girls"

The power of female magnetism. We attract a worthy man! Kuzmina Yulia Gennadievna

Chapter 1 How to become a magnet for men?

How to become a magnet for men?

And why with those with whom it is necessary, it does not work

All women are looking for an answer to this question. All our lives we'll try great amount tips in search of your personal formula for happy love. And most of the experiments will bring us disappointment. I suggest that you stop experimenting and read this very useful chapter to the end to understand that you feel your formula needs to be improved, and not to use other people's recipes.

Disappointments, from fiasco to a drop in self-esteem and demand among men, await those who decide to take other people's advice, instead of creating their own personal formula. And you will come to the common, but not true belief of women, "that all men are the same and they are all their own ...".

It is impossible, having wanted the same thing that your girlfriend or an acquaintance who is successful in relationships with men, wants to create your own happiness. It is also impossible to say or do what another woman did and get the desired result. He will not suit you! Only by creating your own formula, taking into account the characteristics of your personality: value, character, determination to this moment, you will achieve the desired result and inner satisfaction with yourself and become the champion of your own life.

My book is one of the few on this subject that you have read, but since I am a strategic expert in the art of relationships, I assure you that it will help you look at the obvious things in a different way. And applying the tips, finally get the desired result.

Only by creating your own formula, taking into account the characteristics of your personality: value, character, determination at the moment, you will achieve the desired result and inner satisfaction with yourself and become the champion of your own life.

What you need to think about, what to learn and understand in search of the right answers to the question: “How to attract the right man into your life and start a family with him?” In one of the chapters I will just cover these points: what is a magnet; why I attract NOT THOSE; what is included in the personal formula of magnetism.

Women in our world are becoming stronger, they can solve even the most difficult issues. But women, as at all times, need to feel loved and loved. But we understand that there are not very many men worthy of us, and even fewer free and worthy men.

Who is a lot? Those who are poorly suited or not suitable at all. Who are they?

These are infantile, ladies' man, misogynist, lazy, greedy, narrow-minded, conflict, emotionally closed, with a different orientation, with harmful addictions (alcoholics, drug addicts, workaholics), inappropriate in social parameters (age, health, financial capabilities, professional status), married. The list goes on.

And in reality with such men awaits us relationship like this:

meeting? romance/happiness? difficulties from incompatibility? emotional downturn? disappointment? mistrust? loneliness? stagnation. This is in short.

So, in order to avoid such an experience, it is very important to tune your inner magnet to the right partner for you. But before I understand who he is - your hero, I will explain what your personal MAGNET.

A magnet is an inner fire that men notice and that beckons them to you. The fire warms, gives light. A woman's magnet is the quintessence:

- an exact understanding of what or whom I want;

- self-confidence;

- a passionate healthy desire to be loved and love;

- charisma;

- high self-esteem.

When a woman has all this, it makes men be there, desire you, tremble, prove that he is the best, do things, make you his only and dearest.

"Elena. When we met, he did so much to win me over. To be honest, in the beginning I did nothing to please him. He was such a dreamer, coming up with all sorts of surprises, gifts. But where did everything go later, when I fell in love and began to take care of him, to show my feelings for him?

Oh good question! That's how it all starts to fall into place different reasons, but in this particular case, the girl made the most common mistake in relation to a personal magnet - she replaced personal magnetism with the position of Loving and being loved, instead of Being loved and loving. Reflect on the difference.

But I'm stating a fact each has a magnet.

But it does not always work as it should, and at the same time there is three problems eliminating which you will regain happiness.

First problem personal magnetism - Downed settings

If your settings are down, then after a while you notice that that pretty man you like is not so good, and after a while he gets lost somewhere, or you yourself give him his resignation. This is at best, and at worst - you are trying to make “something better” out of it, wasting (losing) time, emotions, confidence. And as a result, a similar outcome is repeated with each subsequent partner.

Solution: in your case, it is necessary to correct values, attitudes, form a complete and true image of a suitable partner and, as a result, you will begin to attract successful, responsible people who are able to create long-term high-quality relationships.

The second problem with the magnet is “Poured”.

This is when your inner fire at the moment of the height of events “flooded”, it went out and, perhaps, for a long time. And now attention! This happens when your man has left your life, maybe to another woman, or to seek the woman of destiny. But in our head it sounds - he preferred the other, the other is better than me. Disappointment, anger at yourself, at him take possession of you, and it's insulting ... to tears. Girls cry when they are abandoned, when they are hurt by injustice - she tried so hard, did so much for him ...

Svetlana. “I don’t understand, because everything seemed to be fine, because I tried so hard to be the best ... correct. I hate him for his betrayal, myself for being weak and for not being able to get him out of my head and heart. Most of all, loneliness kills me, I roar, I can’t trust any of the men. And in general, due to the fact that the most precious thing for you was taken away, the feeling of great universal injustice does not leave.

"Strong women don't cry" is a myth. Their tears are different, and, despite the active lifestyle, the character of the player, a large number of new fans, invisible burning tears flow through the heart or soul, resembling drops of a wax candle, they burn to the point of pain.

And now the fire of your magnet is flooded. And the most a big problem is that the consequence of this event, these experiences will be three years of loneliness. Such women can be identified by the following answers about what is happening with their personal lives now: “There is no one in the environment with whom a spark would appear between us. I don't feel anyone, they're all wrong." The problem is that women are wasting their precious life time by believing in this myth. In order for the fire to ignite again, it is necessary that it “dry out”, otherwise there will be no spark.

He doesn't need to quit and leave. So many families live, without feelings, on their own. Grievances have accumulated, the joy of life has gone, and now they no longer feel anything, although this state of affairs will lead to disastrous consequences if DO NOT ACT!

Solution: urgently do everything necessary to “dry out” the fire, make new settings and fall in love and be loved right now, since the female age is shorter than the male, not in physical sense, but on the tasks that a woman needs to have time to implement.

Third problem with a magnet is called " Ashes".

Remember, coming to nature, we see that there was once a fire, ashes and nothing grows. In life, it looks like this: they loved, but over time they became so different that it became unbearably difficult and bad to be together. But there are strong components, such as sex, the reliability of a partner, wonderful memories from the past, which strongly tied them to each other and keep them. They often quarrel, part, then greatly yearn and return. And so many times. And some, when they part, it is still difficult to share children, things, houses, and in the end, everything good that was between them will be torn to shreds.

Such a long and difficult breakup causes a persistent unconscious antagonism towards the relationship. At the level of consciousness, we really want love, care, interesting diversity, but at the unconscious level, antagonism, fear of repeating the negative, experiencing pain again make us spend 7–8 years in complete solitude, believing that we simply do not meet worthy men on our way.

Solution: urgently restore the resource state, develop an action plan and start creating a new happy love story.

Personal magnetism is a great tool in a happy personal life and success in a career or business.

Remember, so that your magnet does not let you down, so that the settings in it do not go astray, you must now form your personal formula and never allow anyone to bring down these settings. To do this, you need to have clear realistic goals and an idea of ​​\u200b\u200ba partner with whom you will succeed happy life, strengthen the possibilities of your personal magnetism.

Remember, everything that happened to you in the past is not a reason not to create a new one, best story love!

Let's spend diagnosing your satisfaction with your life.

(1 - catastrophically low level, 10 - perfect, it doesn't get any better.)

Color to see the scale:

What conclusions can be drawn? I will make my assumptions, and you choose what suits you best:

1. Where the indicators are higher, it means that you paid more attention here, you know more, you do more. If you do more and what is needed in relationships with men, you will have wonderful results.

2. Where the performance is very high, you may be more active in this area at the expense of the one where the performance is lower.

3. You may need to build a relationship with yourself to bring the right man into your life and create a long-term, wonderful relationship with him.

Now write what needs to be added to each area so that you are satisfied, happy at 10?

Relationships with men:

Attitude towards oneself (self-esteem):

Health and beauty:

Career and financial opportunities: