How to turn to the spirits of the ancestors for help. How to ask the help of spirits? Family support for the fulfillment of desire


There is such a practice - going to the Rod, to your ancestors. It is important to know who they were, to feel their support. If you are married, you can go to your husband's Clan - and his Clan can give you advice and support. How to get the power of the Family? Ancestors can give advice, give gifts, sometimes unexpected. You can also give gifts to them. For some reason I once gave them honey

Ask what interests you. Ask for advice and help. If with one of your ancestors you close connection, ask him to come. If you were in a quarrel with someone, ask for forgiveness. After this practice, the situation will begin to change. Sometimes some signs, answers to questions, ideas come a few days later. Someone will say: “I imagined everything myself!” If at first it is difficult to accept Rod's help in this form, consider that you pulled it out of your subconscious.

I combine these practices with Reiki, but you can do without it. In any case, there is no need to be afraid.

How to get in touch with Rod

We sit down, eyes closed. The knees are bent, the legs are not crossed, they “grow” into the floor like roots. The back is straight, the shoulders are relaxed, the head is “suspended” by the top of the head, and the top of the head is directed to the Cosmos. We take a few breaths in and out.

Introducing our Ancestral Space. You are standing in the center, on the right is the father, on the left is the mother. Look at your mother - what kind of expression does she have, how she looks at you. Say mentally:

"Mom I love you! Mom, I accept you! And I thank you for the fact that I have you, because thanks to you I was (was) born. You gave me life."

You can feel how mom responds. Feel how the streams of unconditional love flow between you, expanding. Feel how mom's condition changes. Tell her mentally:

“Mom, forgive me, I love you! I thank you for giving me life.”

Now look at your father. Tell him:

“I thank you for giving me life. I thank you for everything you have done for me.”

Perhaps his expression has changed, it has become softer. Feel the flow of unconditional love between you.

Look around: behind the father are his parents, and behind the mother are her parents, and so on, up to the founders of the Family. Feel your Family behind you. Tell:

“With gratitude for the gift of life, I embrace and bless my entire Family with love.”

And hear the whole Rod say this phrase with you.

Imagine a red-pink balloon filled with unconditional love in your chest. It gradually grows, flooding the love of parents, grandparents, it grows and floods the entire Rod with the light of love. And we feel how Rod answers us with love, we are the beloved child of Rod, we feel how we are filled with this love. It penetrates the navel area - the place where the soul lives. And behind us two streams flow around us - love from the maternal and paternal Childbirth. We talk:

“I accept the power of my Family with gratitude and love.”

You seem to grow two wings, you are about to take off. And we remember this state of the wings behind our backs - the support of the Family.

Slowly open your eyes, returning to reality.

Family support for the fulfillment of desire

Silently voice the question you want answered or the situation in which you want Rod's support. For example, you want to start your own business and you know that your great-grandfather had a thriving business. You can immediately go to him for help.

We close our eyes, breathe in the stomach with the depth and frequency with which it is comfortable. We see ourselves in the rocks of volcanic origin and begin to descend. We see mom and dad young and ask for their blessings for the fulfillment of desire. We go down a few steps - we see mom and dad very small, we see their parents - your grandparents. We ask for their advice, blessings, information for the fulfillment of desire. We go down even lower and see little grandparents, and next to them are great-grandmothers and great-grandfathers and people from your Family up to the 7th generation. They start hugging and kissing you because you are their extension. Ask them about your desire, get help or support. Hear what they have to say. They can give advice or some object of power. Hug, get their support and love.

We descend even lower and see a lake of green or Pink colour. This is the Lake of Love, which contains the love and strength of the Family, which is passed down from generation to generation. You dive into this lake and feed on Rod's love. When you're fed, you float. And feel the power of unconditional love within you.

You come out of the lake and see the exit from above, and above you there is a blue-blue sky and a bright sun. You take all the gifts that the members of the Family gave you, take all the support and rise to the surface along with the gifts. Keeping a state of quiet and calm happiness, you find yourself in the present, open your eyes, you are here and now.

now you have a Family that gives you resources, wisdom to strengthen the Family.

Why a cave? You can come up with your own image, but it is imperative that there is an entrance and an exit.

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Stranger:

I am an empath. Actually, I would like to know how my great-grandfather lived. They say that when traveling through the past, we remember our past lives, but for this, at the end of our lives, we will still be forced to forget about it, and all subsequent rebirths of my soul will also forget about this past (present). I accepted who I am, albeit with difficulty, having experienced so much, and it made me think that it was not in vain that God and the Universe took care of me so much, which means that I should give help to this world. But the fact that I am the heiress of magic, I learned not so long ago, and for 27 years I got used to humanity and the material world. The snake himself tried to take possession of my soul when he came to me in a dream, he is a skilled seducer, it’s hard not to succumb to him, I understood this, but then he began to mention the name of the Lord, and I rejected the snake, pushing him away from me three times. Before my puberty, he sent some furry monster to me, I knew who it was, and in my dreams, being still a child, I picked up the icon of Jesus and, having gathered the remaining strength (I was very weak), I crawled on my knees and I took the icon over this furry one, and he whined and went down somewhere ... After a while, the icon stopped appearing to me, because I fell into darkness, I was there all alone, I tried to find a way out, but I could not, there was a feeling that I was in Hell or in some world where there are no people besides me. This is how I traveled as a child. Then I dreamed that I was marrying a furry man and I saw a coffin with my remains (a skeleton) not far from me. Terrible nights, tantrums and crying, I couldn’t wake up, then suddenly a miracle, God appeared to me in a bright light and called me to him with a gesture of his hand, I stepped towards him and woke up, I was happy. After that, my mother took us to church to be baptized, and dreams stopped, but a few years later, when I knew adulthood The nightmares have returned. Recently, for 2 nights in a row, I had dreams that I was in the dark again, and when I woke up, I felt tired, as if I had not slept. I was depressed, tired, and even had a fit of rage (I offended my sick sister, as if a demon had possessed me, I myself was shocked by this). I was very frightened of the third night and put the icon of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker at the head, I was afraid not to return from the astral plane, I even wrote a note to my mother. Praise be to God and Nicholas the Wonderworker, everything worked out and the dreams stopped. I'm a witch, I know it and I've come to terms with it. I know that I should study, but something is stopping me. Probably fear. The only option that I see is a mentor, a teacher who will support and teach me, sow faith in my strength in my heart and soul. And the ancestral connection would help me. My relatives will help me, there is no doubt about it, but I don’t know how to step over the usual human life. I receive signs of the universe, sometimes I recognize them, but humanity and fear block my path to knowing power. Great-grandfather had great strength, and apparently the curse was eager to take me to itself, like my relatives. It even prevented me from being born, and during pregnancy, gestation and childbirth, big problems. That profuse bleeding, then I didn’t climb so much during childbirth, leaving my booty, then I turned over and climbed my head, and crushed my neck with the umbilical cord. I reason like this, the darkness did not want my birth and interfered with my life in every possible way, and God prevented all these problems, because the higher powers knew my fate and my choice of light in advance. What can not be said about my sister, she was born with black energy, but remained like a child, stupid and defenseless. There would have been a third child, but the mother developed a tumor that began to grow much faster than the child, and her uterus was cut out along with the child and the tumor. Mom survived and raised us. It turned out that I was the only one who survived all this and it stopped on me, I am safe and sound. But it's hard for one. No support. My family doesn't know much about me. When I was looked at by the moon, she gave the calculation "666". I was afraid of this, because they always said that this is the number of the beast. But my soul is on the side of good, which means that this number will not harm me either. I also realize that powerful magic lies dormant in me and I must be the one who, despite the darkness, was given life. But I'm not ready.
It pisses me off.
I want to find myself, but I need help... The spirits of the family will support me, but without a teacher I am a worthless person. It's offensive. I can heal by touch, guess, feel, see the future, and no one taught me this, everything came by itself. The power itself has awakened in me, which means that I must follow my destiny and become one that will really help those in need. There is no one with whom I can talk about this, and for it to be accepted and supported, some things I keep secret. Ordinary people, trying to help me, get into trouble, as if dark forces interfere with them, I have to cope with everything alone. The woman who helped me is gray, I can’t communicate with her, because they blocked my path, I find a connection with her, but this is not enough.
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Generations of energy loops

When a daughter is a support for her mother, and not vice versa, this is an incorrect exchange of tribal energies. Energy must flow from ancestors to descendants. Each member of the Family has its place in the system. Often there are loops", and often it is mother and daughter, which seem to change places. The daughter becomes the mother and the mother becomes the child. The mother asks for advice, and the daughter makes the decision. It turns out the system is the opposite, the energy flows incorrectly. Mom does not transfer energy to her daughter, but takes her away. And the energy of the kind of daughter does not come.

It happens. That mother and daughter live together or next to each other - mother does not let go. At the same time, the mother resembles a jealous child, begins to resist so that her daughter's relationship with a man and marriage do not take place, in the unconscious hope that her daughter will return to her. And so they live together.

It happens " loopback "mother and son. The son takes the place of the husband. She, mother, behaves like a jealous wife. And even if the son does not live with her in the apartment, he goes to her several times a week. He can resist this in all sorts of ways, but the consequences are the same ... You also know such men who cannot escape from their mother until the age of 40-50. The son takes a step to the right and left, the mother immediately starts to get sick - she lacks energy.

When we enter the Genus, the Universe perceives us as part of the Genus. If there is nothing good in the Family, it must be closed. They can close the birth canal - children are not born in the family - there is no need to continue it. If the genus is bad, you should not multiply it. Following this, the channel of prosperity is closed - the family is not profitable, why waste the energy of the Universe on it.

If the clan is good, strong, correct, does good deeds, there should be many such cells. Then children appear in the Family, and money comes to help the Family. In this kind come people who are said to be "kissed by luck."

Rod and us. Seven Generations of the Family

Consider each generation. What is each one responsible for? In our birth canal, through which we go, everyone is responsible for their own specific area in life and for providing help and support in this area. These souls have no concept of time and space, they are always in our birth canal. It doesn't matter how far you know your relatives. We may not even know their names, and we can still work with the genus. Therefore, we work without names, but with the status in the generic system. Ideally, it would be nice to know what is happening, why and why. But it is impossible to restore the family history to the 7th generation. So withthe schema is the same:

1 – You:) The countdown starts with you.

2 – Parents- this tribal layer is responsible for social adaptation in society. These are behavior patterns, communication patterns, networking, etc. Parents help to assert themselves, fulfill themselves, achieve success and be successful. This is natural: we take the models of behavior from our parents and live by them.

3 – grandparents- this layer is responsible for keeping the history of the Family, intelligence, talents, traditions. They sit down and pass on to their grandchildren all the family stories, what happened, who did it, where they lived, what year it was ... Grandchildren often have memories from childhood: “My grandmother told me this and that ...” Sometimes they say “nature rests on children”, which means: talents are passed down through the generation. It happens that children of very talented parents are not capable of any talents and inclinations. These are the keepers of wisdom and intellect.

4 – Great-grandparents, great-grandfathers- layer is responsible for love - in a general sense. That is, in general, for the feeling of love in the amount from the Universe to a partner: for the world, for yourself, for a partner, for a child, for a flower on the window ... These keepers of Love give us the ability to love, reveal love in our lives and attract love into our a life.

5 – Guardians are our angels. There, on the subtle plane, it doesn’t matter what kind of righteous life they lived, go no, there the soul is already cleansed. They protect us from bad deeds, and from dashing people. You think “I can smell it in my backbone, I can smell it in my gut, I don’t have to go there” - they are the ones who help. This is the voice of our intuition. And when you hear it, our guardians are activated: "You don't have to go there." Help to avoid difficult moments, save your life.

6 – sixth generation- gives sacred knowledge. Responsible for wisdom and connection with Higher powers, bring Wise people and Teachers into our lives. They also bring partners, advisers. They give us the necessary opportunities for obtaining knowledge in general - which you can receive in this life, in this incarnation. Moreover, both at low vibrations and at high ones.

7 – This is the strongest generation. These ancestors can provide tremendous support, determine your destiny, determine your incarnation. They give tremendous power, the main thing is to get through to them.

You need to know all 7 generations. You need to know their dates of birth, how they got sick, how they lived ..

Why is it so hard for us to find ancestors?

Why do so many suffer? Because this information is not available. Moms didn’t tell us, grandmothers didn’t either. Some time ago, these so-called "information channels" were turned off.

If you look at real story country, for the last 7 generations - there is not even 50 years when blood has not been shed. This is terribly reflected in generic programs. What were the revolutions, dispossession, how many deaths, injustice, resentment, famine, resettlement. All these repressions, camps, genocide, Afghanistan, Chechnya… one WAR is worth something…

There was a forced resettlement of peoples, when they moved to the Baikal-Amur Mainline, to virgin lands, to construction sites - the distribution of young specialists, there was a rupture of the roots. This was done purposefully in order to cut ancestral ties so that the uniqueness of the genus was lost. tear off a man from the roots of a kind and mix with each other so that people are not turned into individuals (remember: “the Golitsyn family”, “the Romanov family” are something single, monolithic). When broke these family ties, got a single mass, which is very easy to manage. It was the realization of a certain task - to lead us "to developed socialism."

For many of us, the 4th generation fell on the Great Patriotic War. What does it say? Ancestors (their souls) received a huge emotional trauma. Love was tragic there, How much everything stretches there: there is pain, fear, empty hopes, partings, there were several families. There were few men, and they had two families: the front-line wife and the one who was waiting for him. We cannot evaluate them, because it is not our right. But the fourth generation, which is responsible for love, is very traumatized in this area. Therefore, now there are many single people who cannot create a couple. This generation cannot pass on love and teach how to do it. The transmission chain is broken. All this is collected by the soul when it goes through the birth canal.

What does the phrase "children pay for the sins of their fathers" really mean? There is a German research institute that is looking for the descendants of those victims of Nazism who suffered abuse during the war years. Their children and grandchildren are provided by German volunteers with enormous assistance free of charge, including financial assistance. They say: "We must pay for the sins of the fathers." They understand this structure and responsibility. They see this picture created by their ancestors, and they are afraid of the consequences.

What happened and is happening with us? It is not surprising that there are so many drinkers in the country, because the tribal culture is being killed in the bud, that it is impossible to survive. How much we drove into the head in Soviet times: the son is not the defendant for the father. We were given such an installation that children can refuse their fathers. The fact that in almost every family there is drunkenness, murder, theft - all these are the consequences of a 100-year bloody history.

There is no way to hide from restoring your family history. The tribal system works even if you go abroad.

How and with what to work?

Sins, deceptions, coercion, betrayal, expelled from the family, unborn children - they should be recognized so that they do not take away strength from those currently living in the Family.

You should tell the story to your children so that they remember. It is necessary to work with your family, and with the family of your husband, and with the families of the fathers of your children (in previous marriages). If you are looking for relatives, send requests to the archives - believe me, this will be “counted”. If you don’t pay due attention to your ancestors, then they punish you, and they don’t wait for help ...

We women give life, let souls into this world. We can do everything we can.

When we start working with the family, gratitude comes in the form of:

Families are created

Relationships within the clan are being established,

Wealth is increasing

The clan begins to live, children come to it,

Stop drinking

There are relatives

The family provides support and assistance, forces appear in the family.

If the woman begins to "align" the race , The universe is generous, sends gifts, income appears. And children are given prosperity. In general, good resources are allocated for children from the Universe.

Rod will never refuse if a woman works with this topic. You can ask Rod for strength - and He gives. You can ask Rod for advice - and the answer will definitely come : either in a dream, or in a random phrase, you will definitely understand this “oh, this is what I was looking for!”

Our children often grow up in such an environment that they do not believe in the topic of gender and do not want to learn. Yes, and many of us also think with anger: “Why should I work for everyone?” Or with envy: "Why are others richer?" Or, misunderstanding the work with Rod, they ask: “Ancestors, give me money!” Think about what you are saying!

Working with the family is a very serious practice. You are entering the field of 7 generations. And there can be no frivolity here. If you radiate into the Universe with the wrong vibrations, the energy field does not perceive you. Bring yourself into the right state, gain female energy. If we are in a state that such a resonance is shaking inside, then it is not a woman sitting inside of us, but an angry man. It is wrong to start working with subtle energies of a kind from such a state. Before engaging in practices and asking for help from the clan, enter the female state.

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Ecology of life. People: Ancestral Spirit is an energy-informational field that unites people who are interconnected in a certain way. This may be an egregor of Faith, professions, creativity, family, etc.

The Tribal Spirit is an energy-information field that unites people who are interconnected in a certain way. This may be an egregor of Faith, professions, creativity, family, etc. For a full life, we need the Family Spirit, a kind of energy frame, which was created over the centuries by the desires, actions and aspirations of our Ancestors.

Therefore, very personally and alone with yourself, analyze what place the motivation of conscience occupies in your thoughts and actions. This will be the strength or weakness of your connection to the generic energy field.

A person without the support of the family is like a tree without roots is not viable. And its offspring branches may not even be born. Bachelors, families without children - the last in the family ...

If our actions correspond to the aspirations of the clan, we will acquire a clan consciousness. We will be able to use the general tribal memory and all the knowledge accumulated in it.

This is what our Ancestors called sanity, because by connecting to the tribal egregore, we act according to the "rule" i.e. right.

Revolutions and atheism have cut off the ancestral roots of most of the clans. But today it is important to know not the genealogy as such, but to understand the life of past generations. Through this, the revival of the family is possible.

The Ancestors had a rite of blessing so that the connection of generations would never be interrupted. Parents, grandparents blessed their descendants to accomplish any deeds, to create a family. It's as simple as all genius - bless your son in the morning when he goes to school. Or a daughter who is going on a date. And you will connect children to the huge energy of the family, put protection from misfortunes, misfortunes, bad company, rapists, robbers on the streets, envy.

Contact your parents, grandparents and great-grandparents. Ask for their blessings for yourself, your children. There are no complex rituals and verbose prayers. " I bless you!". And immediately there is an inclusion in the genus, as if a light bulb flashes instantly after the switch is clicked.

We may quarrel or disagree with our parents, act against their will. The result will be the same sooner or later. After many years, we whine: “But mom was right!”. Before it's too late - sincerely ask for forgiveness from your parents, put up.

Respect for old age and care for youth is one of the main canons of the family.

Forgive the parents who failed to give you love and upbringing. Understand that if your birth took place in a family of alcoholics or beggars, then this is a karmic condition for the incarnation of the soul.

Ask for forgiveness and blessings in hindsight. After that, life begins to change not only for a single person, but for the whole family as a whole.

After all, the energies of the egregor are just waiting to be “turned on” in order to come to the aid of descendants living in dark times and strengthen the clan as a whole for centuries.

The more often you remember, mentally referring to the Ancestors, the stronger they are, the higher the energy of the family, and hence the more powerful help in solving earthly affairs and tasks. A person cannot exist and develop outside the genus. The program will always operate, whether we like it or not. But the only thing we can (and, in fact, should do) is to change and improve this program.

Follow the laws, cleansing the clan, correctly remembering the departed Ancestors, respecting them and loving the living. The generic program always corresponds to our personal karma.

The soul, choosing parents, a place of incarnation, becomes a link in the chain of generations. And if the incarnation takes place in a race burdened with curses and negativity, then this is a chance to purify the entire race.

One bright Ancestor and his connection with one bright living one is enough - the whole family can be cleansed and gain other vibrations of energies.

Our race is a source of strength and support, on the one hand, and on the other, our karma and our path. If a normal and outwardly successful person places his mother or grandmother in a nursing home to live out his days alone, then his children or grandchildren will do the same to him, if not worse.

A person achieves perfection in matter and in spirit, helping his family for seven generations in the future and seven generations in the past.

The accumulation of the power of the piety of the family passes from generation to generation. And vice versa, if we degrade and follow the path of temptation and vice, do not respect and do not love the elders, abandon children - we are pumping out energy from the family for generations to come. And with each generation it gets worse and worse. This explains why one is born healthy and in a wealthy family, and the other is born with birth defects and their parents leave them.

How we use the power is up to us. By strengthening and purifying the family, we increase the power of piety - this is the basis for the birth of healthy and brilliant children. The Vedas say:

“Through a son a person comes to the Higher World, through a grandson he acquires Immortality, through a great-grandson he enters the abode of light! There is no death! published

In the Vedic tradition, the day of remembrance of the ancestors, in addition to some specific days of the calendar, is considered Saturday. Today is Saturday (while researching - Sunday has come). Not the point, for some reason today I wanted to remember this.

Before turning to this topic, I would like to say that our family, even those who have left this world, at least up to the 7th generation, stand behind us and support us. Well, at least that's how it should be...

It is not for nothing that in the old days our ancestors kept the memory of their kind. After all, not only aristocrats and royal families had the concept of a family tree. If you recall, then in old Russia, even among ordinary peasants, the surname of the clan was often transmitted from the progenitor by his name. Therefore, we have so many Ivanovs (Ivan), Sidorovs (Sidor), Prokhorovs, Matveevs, Ilyins ... Or it was a surname associated with the occupation of their ancestors - the Kuznetsovs, Kuptsovs, Sapozhnikovs, Portnovs. And people remembered their family, stories about their ancestors were passed down from father to son, from son to son… It was hardly just a whim. People had this knowledge that the genus is its protection.

Of course, things have changed now. No wonder there is a proverb: "Ivan, who does not remember kinship". When the foundations of our state were collapsing, it was beneficial for the Bolsheviks that a person forgot his clan, family, and fought only for an idea. And in principle, they succeeded in many ways. How many people now remember at least the name of his great-grandfathers? And we need to remember, if only because without them there would be no us.

There is such a thing as tribal karma. And for us now it is rather negative karma, but not because the family is cursed or someone in the family has sinned. How can our ancestors help us if we do not remember them? If we don't pray for their souls, if they made mistakes? Don't give thanks for your life? Many now simply don’t even have time - we are constantly participating in the race for survival - how to become more successful, how not to be late here, how to earn even more, how not to lose. And in principle, we have already lost a lot. And, perhaps, the help of our kind will be more effective for solving any of our problems than relying only on ourselves "mighty" ...

Of course, for many now it is almost impossible to restore the lost family ties. But it is believed that if you turn to an ancestor, even without knowing his name, his soul still understands that it is about her. And it does not matter that perhaps this soul lives in another incarnation. We are all connected by thin invisible threads. Like God, he is both one and many at the same time.

Sometimes the question is asked: how can one remove the contradiction between the doctrine of reincarnation and the doctrine of the need to honor ancestors? Indeed, at first glance, it seems that if the soul of a person has incarnated in a new body, then honoring him as an ancestor does not make sense (how can he accept honor if he is already in another body?). Different spiritual people give different answers to this question.

First, the soul does not necessarily reincarnate immediately after death. It may take quite a long time before the soul accepts a new body.

They also point to the existence of the concepts of "collective memory", "celestial twin", "parallel self", which remains in the energy field when the soul reincarnates. Sometimes this is interpreted in such a way that it is not a literal entity. It is our actions in our past lives that live like shadows of the past or as our memories and the memories of other people.

Remember and honor your family and over time you will feel inexplicable support, strength, confidence, wisdom that came from nowhere, answers to questions that pop up from nowhere, as if you just knew about it before. Try it, don't skimp on love!!!

Words in words, but how to do it if we are untrained? I tried to find information from different sources. Everyone subconsciously chooses for himself what suits his soul. Any tradition has the right to be. In any case, only those who need this information will read this article. I myself, quite recently, well, just out of the blue, the question of my kind arose. It literally grew out of the blue.

When I started to be interested in this, I thought, well, what can I find? Who in our time thinks especially about the ancestors? There were and were. It turns out I was wrong, it has always been an important component in all cultures. Here are just a few examples, and there are also China, Japan, Egypt, etc.

  • Slavic Vedas.

On the Days of Remembrance of the Ancestors and Parental Days, which you can find in the Calendar (other Russian), you can commemorate the Ancestors.

To do this, place bloodless (non-animal) food on the Altar at home - trebs and gifts - pancakes, pancakes, cookies, fruits, nuts, sweets, honey, jam, etc. It’s very good if you yourself prepared the trebs with your own hands.

For example, baking pancakes - the first pancake - to God on the altar, and the second to the Ancestors. The rest - for the elderly and children, then for themselves. Since, when preparing food personally, you invest "your Soul", your energy, therefore, remembering the Ancestors with such food, you exchange energies with them and give them your strength so that the communication channel does not dry out, and so that they have energy, so that you help.

Trebs are placed on the Altar with the following words: "The Heavenly Family, Ancestor! You, the Patron of all the Clans! Remember all my Ancestors! Who are in Your Light Svarga! Now and ever and from Circle to Circle! Taco be, taco be, taco be!"

The altar is arranged in the far left corner of the room from the entrance. (In one of the articles, I read that an altar for the remembrance of ancestors (well, or just a place for remembrance) is installed in the southern part of the room, which is very similar to the Indian Vedas, because in their tradition, the South is ruled by Yamaraj - the God of death.)

  • Orthodox Church.(note, where I started - in Orthodoxy, parental day is also Saturday !!!)

The Church has established days of solemn, general, ecumenical commemoration. The requiems performed at the same time are called ecumenical, and the days on which the commemoration is performed are called ecumenical parental Saturdays. In the circle of the liturgical year, such days of general commemoration are: meat-fare Saturday; Saturday Trinity; Parental Saturdays of the 2nd, 3rd and 4th weeks of Holy Forty Days; Radunitsa; Dmitrievskaya Saturday; Day of the beheading of John the Baptist; Victory Day in the Great Patriotic War. These days it was supposed to visit the deceased relatives at the cemetery, invite them to a festive feast. They believed that the dead, having received an invitation, came to houses, sat down at the tables, ate and drank together with the living, stood in the church at the festive liturgy.

  • Indian Vedas.

There is a huge amount of information about the veneration of ancestors. Pinda, Shraddha... You can find it yourself on the Internet. For me, the most concise, simple and real at home at one time was the information thrown to me by one wonderful girl Lena Gufranova, which I am now sharing with you.

Practice at home.

For the practice you will need: a church candle, a pack of rice, spices, two new plates. You can't eat from these plates. Mark them - one will be for offering food to God, the second - for the Ancestors. Keep them separate for later.

  • Get up in the morning, take a bath and put on clean clothes. The kitchen should also be clean.
  • Put the rice to boil and while it is cooking, read prayers over it. Rice is not to be tasted. When it is cooked, add ghee, black sesame seeds (you can use poppy seeds, caraway seeds or other black spices), a little salt and sugar. Let the rice cool down.
  • Then form the rice into balls the size of Walnut and put them on a clean plate, which must be placed for 15-20 minutes in front of the image of God.
  • Offer food to God.

Here are the prayer options:

  • Prayer for offering food in the Christian tradition:

"Lord Jesus Christ, our God, bless our food and drink with prayers. Thy Most Pure Mother and all Thy Saints, as blessed be Thou forever. Amen". (And cross the food 3 times).

  • Vedic mantra for offering food:

"Namo Om Vishnu padaya

krishna prestaya bhutale

Shrimate bhaktivedanta

Swamin ichi namine

Namaste sarasvati deve

Gaura Vani Pracharine

Nirvisesa-shunyavadi

Pashchatya desha tarine

Nama maha vadanyayya

Krishna prema pradaya te

Krishnaya Krishna Chaitanya

Namne gaura-tvishe namah

Namo brahmanya-devaya

Go-brahmanya-hitaya cha

Jagad-dhitaya krishnaya

Govindaya namo namah."

Wait 15-20 minutes for the Lord to bless your food.

  • Then put the rice balls on another new plate to offer to the Ancestors. Put it in another place, light a candle and say: "I invite members of my kind to come and take this food". At the same time, it is advisable for you to stay in the room and just sit and pray in your spiritual tradition for 20-30 minutes.
  • Then thank your kind: "I thank you for taking this food. I want to thank you for my life! I am a part of you! I want to show you respect and reverence by asking your blessings and asking for help (tell me what you are asking for). May these prayers express our gratitude and reverence!" Then bow. Let your appeal to the ancestors express your gratitude and respect!
  • Attention! Then, before sunset, you need to feed the fish or black crows with these rice balls. Cooked food should not be eaten by living people, nor should it be thrown away.

This will complete the practice.

Important notes:

  • Do your practice with maximum concentration!
  • IN critical days practice cannot be done.
  • The practice has great power if it is done by several women of the Family, for example, you are with your mother or with your sister, or with your daughter.
  • You can cook a little rice, or you can cook the whole pack. The more you feed the animals, the better.
  • Pregnant women can do this practice.
  • Please remember you are a woman - a mystical creation of God! In your hands is the opportunity to create a strong strong family, which will be a reliable rear for you, your children and grandchildren!

This is a deep practice, it is advisable to do it several times. Many of our families have inspired us to become who we are today. By positive or negative deeds, our families have created our lives, just as we are creating it now for ourselves and for those who will come after us!

  • Catholic traditions.

All Souls' Day is traditionally celebrated in the Roman Catholic Church on November 2, following All Saints' Day (November 1). On this day, in many countries of the world, it is customary to go to the cemetery, light candles, decorate graves with greenery and flowers, and have a common family meal (at home, since eating in cemeteries is strictly prohibited).

  • African traditions (the text is given with abbreviations and I have not tested it in practice).

The souls of the dead in African traditions are called differently. There are various types. Usually, Eguns are considered the Spirit of the Ancestor (regardless - a relative or not, because we may not know who our relatives were in past lives or who we were and where we lived). Eguns are blood and religious relatives.

In this tradition, there is such a thing as the Shrine of the Ancestors (Spiritual Altar, Corner of Eguns).

The procedure for honoring the Ancestors can be represented as four main stages:

  • Preparation of the Shrine of the Ancestors.
  • Preparing for worship.
  • veneration procedure.
  • End of the ritual.

Preparing the Ancestral Shrine

First of all, you need to install a table (or other "foundation" of the altar - a shelf, cabinet, etc.). Cover it with a white cloth. He recommends washing it with a little vinegar, then drying it in the sun and lining the altar, sprinkling the fabric with your favorite perfume. Tradition advises to find four stones near the house, clean them with salt, wash them thoroughly and place them in the corners of the altar.

Next, you should place on your altar, or near it (for example, on the wall behind the altar), photographs or portraits of the Ancestors. You can drape the wall behind the altar to make it easier to attach the images. It is generally accepted that you should not have any photographs of living people on your altar.

You can place on the altar the objects of worship of those religions that your Ancestors followed (Holy Scriptures, images of Deities, etc.). Place a white candle on the altar. It is recommended to put a little earth taken near the house and a few grains of salt in a glass candlestick, wipe the white candle clean vegetable oil from the middle to the top, and then, from the middle to the base and, having strengthened the candle in the candlestick, set it in front of the glass pure water. Fresh flower petals can be added to the glass.

Honoring the Ancestors requires regularity. It doesn't have to be done every day. You can make a commitment to honor your Ancestors once a week, for example. If you have set the frequency of your rituals, you must strictly adhere to your commitment.

It is necessary to keep your Shrine in perfect cleanliness. Do not let the water that you offer to the Ancestors evaporate. Do not allow spoiled food to be on the altar. Regularly wipe the dust from the images of the Ancestors and other items on the altar.

Note:

Even if you don't have an Ancestral Shrine, you still have the ability to honor the Eguns. By placing a food offering on a plate and dedicating it to the Ancestors, you can be sure that the Ancestors will receive this offering. You can pour some water directly on the ground and this will also be accepted by the Eguns.

Preparation for veneration

Purification of oneself and the Sacred Space.

Purification is a necessary step in preparing for the veneration of the Ancestors. The importance of this stage is due to the fact that impurity, firstly, offends the Spirits, and secondly, it can contribute to the penetration of malevolent Forces.

Identify yourself and pay tribute to the Spirit of the Ancestors: (your name) and (your Ancestors are mentioned, starting from parents, etc.).

Bless the leaves prepared for fumigation, paying homage to their Spirit.

Ask for peace, stability and wisdom.

Give thanks.

Your emotional state should not include negative emotions (anger, hatred, etc.). At any stage of the contact procedure, from fumigation, etc., you should be focused on the activity being carried out and the ultimate goal of your actions.

Thoroughly fumigate the entire area. Make sure that the smoke of smoking gets into every part of the room where the Shrine of the Ancestors is located. Smoke yourself, first from the front (from head to toe) and then from behind (from head to toe).

Take a glass of clean water. Add some of the perfume you use, as well as some of your saliva. Say:

"I pay tribute to the Spirit of the Ancestors."

((your name) and (your Ancestors are mentioned, starting with parents, etc.))

I am (your name) a child of (origin).

Bless the water.

With the help of your left hand, sprinkle the entire room with this water, concentrating on this consecration of the space. Before sprinkling, name the names of those Ancestors with whom contact is undesirable, and the reasons for their exclusion from this ritual. If you do not know the names of all your Ancestors, just mention that you remove from your sacred space the Spirits of all Ancestors who died violent deaths, suicides, criminals, alcoholics, drug addicts, etc., and do not allow them to invade this space.

Before the beginning of the ritual and after its completion, it is recommended to take a bath, or at least sprinkle yourself with water from a large bowl, which should be installed near the altar.

Veneration procedure

  • Calling Ancestors.

IN At the beginning of the ceremony, you can ring the bell or shake the maracas. She also advises lighting a candle and, if possible, vanilla or coconut incense.

Various texts can be used to invoke the Spirits of the Ancestors. Perhaps some of your Ancestors would like to hear from Holy Scripture the religion they professed (Bible, Koran, Torah, Vedas).

Here it is appropriate to make a libation of water. The liquid can be sprayed directly from the mouth onto the Shrine of the Ancestors, or a finger can be dipped into the liquid and allowed to drip onto the ground. After the call, you should name the names of all your Ancestors known to you (starting from the recently deceased, etc.): (name of the Ancestor), after the name, you can add the life achievements of your Ancestor.

By calling on the Ancestors, you not only invite them to your Shrine, but also honor their memory in this way. After the invocation, you can sing songs in honor of the Ancestors (you can use the texts of the Psalms, verses of the Koran, mantras, etc.). You can dance (without crossing your legs).

Now you can make offerings.

  • Offerings to Ancestors.

Offerings to the Ancestors may include any food that you yourself eat. Each time you eat, before you eat yourself, you can offer some of the food to the Ancestors, placing it in a plate (cracked plates are often used) on the floor in front of the altar, or directly on the altar (all food offered to the Ancestors must be without salt!) . It advises to place food in the form of a circle, and put a candle and liquid food in the center. She recommends touching the plate to your forehead, heart, and perineum and breathing on your food.

Offerings also include drinks. When offering drinks, place a few drops on the ground.

Fresh flowers may be used as offerings. When you learn to get in touch with the Souls, your Ancestors themselves will tell you about their desires, which, of course, should not be ignored.

Water, candles, and other non-perishable offerings are usually changed once a week (often on a Friday or Monday evening).

The traditional Egunam offering includes nine small portions. coconut with palm oil and guinea pepper on each piece placed on a small plate around roasted corn, dried fish and jutia. Pour honey on top.

  • Dialogue with the Ancestors.

After making an offering, thank the Ancestors for the blessings you have received. Here, as at any other stage of communication with Souls, you can use either your native language, or the language spoken by the Ancestors.

After calling the Ancestors, ask if any of them have come and if they have a desire to speak. If the answer is yes, find out the name of the Ancestor by listing them in turn. If the Spirit refuses to answer (and in all other cases when you lose control of the ceremony), you must end the session, extinguish the candle and take a bath.

Having found out the name, you can start the dialogue. Ask for blessings first, in your own language.

Ask about the wishes of the Ancestor. He may want you to make some kind of offering (not necessarily food). If it is within your power, satisfy the desires of the Spirit immediately. If it's in this moment impossible, but realistic in the future, promise the Spirit to fulfill the request in a specific time frame.

After that, you can present your pressing problems to the Spirit and ask him for help in resolving them. Try to ask questions in a way that Spirit can answer "yes" or "no". Keep in mind that not all Ancestors are advanced enough to offer good advice. If Spirit cannot help you, or if his advice is objectively impossible to implement, thank him for his help and try to find advice from another Spirit.

When dealing with Spirits, care must be taken. If your sessions are constantly infiltrated by malevolent Spirits, or if you are experiencing cases of possession, it is better to stop the sessions of invoking Spirits, and start using your altar simply as a place of reflection, meditation.

  • Completion of the ritual.

When you have finished sprinkling at the end of the ritual, pay tribute to the wisdom of the Ancestors three times.

Finishing the ceremony of veneration, it is necessary for some time to indulge in reflections on the strength and wisdom of your Ancestors, their life and meaning (you can sort out the rosary at this time), after which, thank them for their wisdom.

After that, extinguish the candle with your fingers or a special device for extinguishing candles. Pour the water from the bowl used for sprinkling away from the house.

Leftover food the next morning can be left at the foot of a large tree. Do not mix leftover offerings with your household waste. Plates, cups, etc. must be cleaned with salt and removed until the next time. You can not use them, like any other items of the altar, for any other purpose, except for the veneration of the Ancestors. Over the next few days, watch your intuition yourself. Ancestors can give you their guidance through them.

  • Muslim traditions.

I have been looking for information for a long time. All references are only to the worship of Allah. Then I found an article ... An excerpt from it: "There is no doubt that our ancestors were from among the righteous people. It was they who, having accepted Islam, took upon themselves the heavy burden of calling for this religion in our lands and spreading its light. Many historical facts testify to their piety, courage and greatness. That is why they have numerous rights over us. We are obliged to follow their example in what corresponds to the most pure religion of monotheism and ask Allah for forgiveness for them. They achieved greatness and power only because they strictly followed the canons of this religion, adhering to monotheism and the Sunnah. They were far from polytheism and innovations, as well as everything that, at least in the distant future, could lead to it.

One of the main and biggest reasons leading to polytheism is excessive veneration of ancestors. Moreover, this phenomenon was the main reason for the appearance of the very first polytheism on earth.

One of the imams of the Hanafi madhhab - Shukri al-Alusi (1342 / x) said: " Excess in honoring and exalting any of the creatures is the greatest reason leading to the worship of idols and the righteous. It was the excessive exaltation of the righteous that caused the people to worship Nasr, Sua "u, Yagus and others among the people of the prophet Nuh (Noah). Christians also began to worship" Isa (Jesus) precisely for this reason". See "Masail Jahiliya" p.71-72."

But I didn't stop there. Don't they respect it??? I have girlfriends in the Muslim faith, and they gave me the answer: " In the Muslim faith, sadaqah (alms) is served and prayers are given for the souls of the departed."

Therefore, wherever you look, in any tradition, apparently in the subconscious of a person, this ancestral memory still lies ... It's time for us, Ivans, who do not remember kinship, to learn to pay this tribute of veneration, and someday in our hour they will remember us too, and we We will also help our family at a completely different level of consciousness...

I wish peace, prosperity and goodness to your family!!! With love!!!